Reading, writing
& getting it on
Angela is ready for school.
She has her books, last night's homework, some money
for lunch, and a box of condoms.
Just another 12-year-old headed out the door for a day
of reading, writing and sex.
For Angela, a little sex is just part of a day at
school in Washington, DC.
"Ain't no big thing," she says.
"Everybody's doin' it."
According to recent news reports, students at some
Washington schools engage in sexual activity on school
property on a regular basis.
One group of elementary students apparently had a
full-fledged gang bang while locked, unsupervised, in a
room as punishment.
Angela says she's had sex in the boy's bathroom, the
girl's bathroom, an empty classroom, the gym locker room
and the hallway of her school.
"It's more fun if you might get caught, but we
ain't gonna get caught. The teachers know what's going
on. They don't care."
Actually, Angela did get caught by a teacher, once.
"Yeah, he started rantin' on us about how much
trouble we was in, so I gave him a blow job to shut him
up. Course now, I gots to service the dude once a week to
keep him quiet."
She started experimenting with sex at 9, "you
know, feeling each other up, jacking somebody off."
By 10, she'd lost her virginity.
"We're dealing here with one of the most
frightening trends I've ever seen," says Roberta
Hollingsworth, a child psychiatrist who counsels
sexually-active children like Angela. "These kids
approach sex the same way we dealt with smoking as kids.
It's something they just have to try."
Hollingsworth says her caseload of sexual-active
children is up 300 percent over the past five years.
"When you have nine-year olds experimenting with
sex and 11-year-olds getting pregnant, you've got a
serious problem on your hands. Yet the schools in
Washington are so preoccupied with drugs and weapons they
are just ignoring the sexual activity that is going on
right under their noses."
Hollingsworth says the casual attitude towards sex is
just part of society's overall numbness.
"We've grown so casual
about violence, about what is right and wrong, about what
is acceptable and unacceptable that I suppose it
shouldn't surprise anyone that our children now regard
sex as just another recreational activity."
So who's to blame?
"We all get to share this one,"
Hollingsworth says. "The parents, the schools and
society in general. Our generation had role models we
could look up to. Today's children don't have much in the
way of role models. Many have parents who are divorced.
Their sports stars have drug habits and serious character
flaws that are exposed on a daily basis. In Southeast
Washington, children live with the daily fear of getting
killed before they reach puberty. When you have these
kinds of things happening around you, it's hard to
consider anything sacred."
Angela sees sex as the lesser of all the evils that
could be forced on her young life.
"I don't do drugs, I don't smoke, I don't drink.
So what's wrong if I get it on? It ain't no big
thing."
And, Angela adds, she practices safe sex.
"Nobody does me unless they use a condom. I ain't
gonna catch something because they's dumb."
What about pregnancy?
"Can't happen. I ain't had my first period
yet."
--Doug Thompson
Washington, DC
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